Born in and now returned to Yorkshire from Scotland, spending summers in Italy. I knit socks but prefer to wear flip flops
Tuesday, 26 September 2023
Monday, 25 September 2023
Now almost there
We are in Italy, tonight we should be at our house, phew. Photo is at the top of the San Bernard pass, MrFF cannot seem to stop driving over it.
Thursday, 21 September 2023
Neither here nor there
I didn’t realise I hadn’t blogged for a couple of weeks, no excuse. We’ve had a few visitors at the penthouse but otherwise our Yorkshire life has continued as usual. However that is due to change, we plan to leave for Italy at the weekend, ferry and overnights are booked, it’s definite.
So I am at the in between stage, half packed, mentally planning what I need to take whilst trying to continue normal life and feeling restless. We’ve moved house a lot, at least half a dozen times, I mean actually given up one house for another not just decamping between two homes in different countries. Every time I have tried to keep life as normal as possible as long as possible, not wanting to dismantle our home too early and to enjoy every final minute. This strategy isn’t the best, it means a lot of final frantic packing but does avoid every room being filled with boxes for weeks, a half empty home with everything but the essentials gone. Of course last time we moved from Scotland back to Yorkshire the removal van had left long before MrFF started packing his office so I didn’t feel too bad about my own procrastination.
I suppose in my heart I would happily stay here. I know we are going back to Italy to deal with another water leak, a battle with the Comune about a planning violation that took place in the 1980s and which they have been aware of for more than 40 years, all the usual stress. The weather is still pleasant there but summer is over and dark nights are coming. However there are two cats we miss terribly, Grigio and Enrico are fine, we’ve had updates and photos from Giovanni who they have visited regularly. I really look forward to seeing them but leaving them again for winter will be as awful as ever.
I need to pull myself together, I could move balcony furniture and plants to safer sheltered places, but it all looks so lovely, maybe just one more day of this.
Friday, 8 September 2023
To be expected
We might have known that during the best week of weather this year our management company would decide to erect scaffold next to our balcony to allow the roofers to repair a leaking chimney stack we reported two years ago.
So sitting out is limited, the lads are nice enough, friendly and chatty, but I am sure they have no desire to gaze on a 74 year old in shorts and vest and I have no wish for them to do so. Besides there is dust and debris falling on the balcony, I’d be slathered in factor 50 and very gritty.
A couple of times MrFF has walked down to the lido, less than £3 for the afternoon with all the facilities including a cafe. The water is 21 degrees, he manages that and we both manage this temporary disruption.
Saturday, 2 September 2023
Separate Saturdays
Regularly on Saturday MrFF takes off for one of his group walks, sometimes starting in Ilkley which is convenient, sometimes from a location that he can access by public transport, both our bus and train station are less then 10 minutes walk away. Today the walk started at Gargrave on the very edge of the Yorkshire Dales which required him to drive.
The alarm went off at 6.40, he brought me a cup of tea, breakfasted alone and left at 7.40. A lesser woman might have gone back to sleep but I was up, into my walking gear and completed 6 miles with 2 good climbs before coming home for a shower and breakfast. A bit of dorissing including washing the kitchen floor and I moved onto the sunny balcony.
It was lovely out there with all my happy things and 21 degrees. I came inside to watch the final kilometres of the Vuelta a EspaƱa, and then sat out again till 6.30. After my morning exercise I’ve had a lovely relaxing day.
MrFF walked 23miles, he took this photo of some hardy folk in Janets Foss. Now he is in the shower, he’ll be sleep soon after dinner which means I won’t have to listening him moaning when I want to watch a double episode of Casualty. Saturdays work well for both of us.Friday, 25 August 2023
The fun continues
Today MrFF is 75, that sounds old but obviously he isn’t.
To celebrate we went out for lunch at the Boar’s Head in the pretty North Yorkshire village of Ripley, taking the scenic route over the River Wharf and across the moor. The hotel is part of the estate of Ripley Castle, we took a walk round the periphery of the grounds before lunch.
Lunch was delicious, we both had fish and chips with mushy peas and tartar sauce, eaten in a small and pretty dining room. Our window table was ideal with a view down the Main Street as there was a wedding taking place at the castle and many of the guests had spent the night before in the hotel. Sadly we didn’t see the bride arrive but the guests were very well turned out.
Here are views of the front and rear of the Boar’s Head, as well as smart dining there is a bar and outside tables mostly used by cyclists and walkers.
We had such large helpings that we couldn’t face dessert, however a stroll round the village settled our stomachs and we had ice cream from the Ripley ice cream shop, vanilla for the birthday boy lemon curd for me. We chatted to a few holiday makers and a cyclist from our Ilkley club, it was a pleasant afternoon and we were home by 5. Within a few minutes MrFF was fast asleep in his chair. Maybe he’s not as young as I thought.
Friday, 18 August 2023
MrFF’s big days out
When not trying to sort out our latest Italian dilemma or joining me in a rant about the situation, MrFF has managed to get out and about this week so I’ll show you a few things he’s been up to.
Tuesday afternoon he decided to walk across the moor to Skipton approximately 10 miles and take the bus home. En route he collected half a dozen eggs at this lovely farm.
Thursday he was off early to meet with one of his several walking groups. The 14 mile route had been planned to visit the village of Kettlewell which was in the middle of its annual scarecrow festival. The village hall was doing a good trade in homemade food so that was the lunch stop and there was plenty to see. It all looked lovely.
In the afternoon they returned via dramatic Kilnsey Crag where several climbers were in action and fortunate to have a faithful dog to guard their possessions.
Don’t you just love Yorkshire, it never fails to delight even when Italy is doing the complete opposite.
The photos are all MrFF’s own, you can see more scarecrows Here or visit until Sunday.

















